She is probably very overtired. I feel for you!

Giving her pain relief is the best you can do. Nurofen works better than panadol. She will be quick to get into bad habits..... Unless you are happy to have her sleep on the boob.

My advice would be to start a bed time ritual and don't change it. I know she is teething and it's painful but in the same token kids love attention so even when the teething is over she may continue the tantrums.

When we struggled with dd we used lavender in a vaporizer and put a radio on classical music very low. It seemed to soothe her, particularly when at 12 months we ditched the dummy.

Massage, particularly stroking of the head is quite good before bed and the stroking we did to get her to sleep.

When she wakes, pick one soothing thing and stick to it, ie the stroking so she knows your there and comforting her but also knows it's sleep time. It will be painful for awhile because she is used to being picked up and bought to bed, change won't happen on the first night.

Alternatively, just hope it's teething and it passes. Give it a few more days if you can.

I sound like a harsh parent. I still sleep with my dd even if she has a slight cough. But she does get into the habit of wanting me there all the time so its like a bit of retraining every time she gets better.

Goodluck in whatever you decide. Remember comfort comes in many forms, that includes comfort from pain.

I hope you are having sweet dreams soon