Thanks sm! Yup she has an amber necklace, which works most of the time.
Lasy night wasnt too bad, well she didnt get huge straights of sleep and in the end she was in our bed, as usual.
tonight is pretty good, well so far. Fingerscrossed it stays that way!
I suppose what has been so frustrating has been that what you suggested sm is my normal routine of settling which normally works. tonight I am hoping it is just teething and she will be back to normal in a couple of days, well hopefully back to normal tonight!