Thanks everyone for your replies. I find it hard to accept the age thing considering she has always been a bad sleeper as in she has never slept longer than 3hrs. And overnight is always 2-3hrly or more wake ups. If I don't get her to sleep during the day she is ever so grizzly. She rarely will fall asleep in my arms, if she did I'd be happy with that. Guess it's just something I'll have to put up with. But I'm just exhausted at the moment. I have been taking her for drive in the car to get her to sleep lately, and that'll give me at least 30mins.