Is she too reliant on me?

[Indadhanu]

Sarah, this is a bit late but I so know how you feel. If I'm in the bath and Jazz starts crying I know I have to get out because as much as Shel wants to settle her she just can't. It upset Shel for a while until I explained that Jazz just needs to know that her boobies haven't gone anywhere, cos its instinct you know, babies want to be near the person that nourishes them because otherwise how would they live? It can be so frustrating though (but it kinda makes me feel special ).

Grrrrrrrr I know just how you all feel about people who have absolutely NO empathy to a crying baby. SIL came around yesterday (first time in a few weeks...) and picked Jazz up (while she was playing happily BTW ) and Jazz cried and SIL just laughed her head off saying "oh, aren't you a sooky baby!"... I just wanted to take Jazz and b!tchslap SIL! She's not sooky! You're a stranger who just grabbed her without warning and interrupted her play! What do you expect?!?!?! Made me so mad!
BTW, Shel and I also say "aww, its ok, tell us all about it, oh lifes hard for a baby huh!".

Will try the shirt thing and see how that goes.

[Smoke Jaguar]

It upset Shel for a while until I explained that Jazz just needs to know that her boobies haven't gone anywhere

...Shel could always lactate, then you could both be booby mummies!

[Indadhanu]

PMSL I love to say that just to watch her face! She's not really interested in that unfortunately, but thats ok I don't mind cos I love the special bfing time (it gets me out of cooking )

[Smoke Jaguar]

I figured you may have already explored this question
I reckon I'd be a bit possessive about it, too, in a similar situation - if men could lactate, there's not much chance I'd be encouraging DP to take over or fill in for me...it's just something boy and me can escape to!