Simone, i dont think anyone was attacking you either, just showing their concern for the health of your daughter. She was a prem baby and has had some medical problems in the past, no one was doubting your parenting, just giving advice.

I do agree with what Shannon said about maybe because she was prem daycare isnt for her yet?? I understand you may need time off or something, but day care can do everything in their power to stop cross contamination and it doesn't stop things being passed on. Its something you have to accept when putting your child in there. If its not okay, then take them out. yes the conjunctivitis is probable from day care, but the ear infection isn't.

Maybe consider family day care or something where there are less children??

Just a suggestion, I hope your little girl is on the mend now

I don't think its very fair that your XH couldn't get your car back to you considering it was about your childs health. Sure people work, but family should be put before work :|

take care of yourself and the kids