I guess its how you want to look at it. I would take it as a compliment. Its not a competition on who's suffered the most during pregnancy/birth/parenthood its just that everyone's baby is different. I used to get comments like that too, and even though I thought my kids were far from "easy" I also think like what has been previously said everyone's baby is different and what is easy for some may be hard for another and vice versa. And for me I had both sides I guess, when I had DD everyone said she was "easy" when I had DS everyone thought he was possessed "Whats wrong with him? Why does he cry? Does he do that all the time? How do you cope?" Ummmm its fine.

But having said that please don't think I'm downplaying your frustration because it is frustrating, but I would simply smile and say thanks. And DO NOT let it make you think that just because someone has said she's easy means you can't ask for help, and I think thats the hardest thing to deal with. It makes you feel as though somehow you must be weak as someone else thinks she's easy and you have hard days. Which is rubbish. EVERYONE has hard days, everyone struggles with different stages with their child.