I agree with mummytotwo about not picking bubby up every time they cry but obvoiusly not letting themselves go nuts! Its a whole new world for both bubby and you so make sure you cut yourself some slack and remember that your little precious is only 2 weeks old. It does get better and easier (again, felt that more the second time round myself) so hang in there and take it one day at a time and just remember to not worry, if that's possible! I did the controlled crying of every 5 to 10 minutes and then would do all the checks, wind, nappy, too hot/cold etc then a soothing cuddle (but not rocked to sleep) and mummy kisses then back down in the bassinet. My take on it was that I was teaching my baby a new pattern after being snug as a bug inside me, now a new season had begun!
The beauty of gently training your little one you to fall asleep unassisted is that more sleep will come to you and bubby becomes less reliant on needing to be rocked to sleep by mummy...............and a mummy who has enough sleep is a much happier mummy! Thinking of you sweets! You're doing such a great job! But like I said, take it one day at a time and don't worry if things aren't how you might think they should be as it all does pan out in the end..............take the time to enjoy the journey on the way!

hth xx