Thanks ladies! Been out for tea with DH kid free! So I havnt responded till now.
Maybe sleep school isn't entirely what I need? I don't mind DS waking over night to feed - he is only little and goes back to sleep easily. It's his day sleeps. Today he slept in 2 x 45 min blocks and that's it! I know he is tired and gets to tired that he gets beside himself! I just want Sind techniques to help him sleep beter and then feel better.
I'm also finding if difficult once he is asleep yo keep him that way, esecially with a 2.5 yo making noise as kids do!
DD is also being woken when he wakes at night some times and can then rake another 1-1.5 hrs to get her back to sleep and I know she needs more sleep to!
As much as I could do with more sleep I will go without if it means they sleep better and thus feel better.
Thanks so much for all your imput, I'll talk more tomorrow when I'm not on my phone. Xo