Hi Amanda

Sorry to say I dont have any solutions for you but if it is any comfort Alexander is the same - he never wakes up "calm", always screaming and this has been going on for months now. We also have had him checked out but the docters say nothing is the matter.

One thing a few people have suggested to me is that Alex may be having "night terrors". I initially dismissed the idea thinking he was too young but lately I think they may be right as he is a veyr "Active" sleeper IYKWIM?

Could Cody be the same? I have given Alex a bear to cuddle in bed to act as something familiar if he does wake up unsettled, some nights it helps others it doesnt. Sorry I cant be much help other then that and to sympathise.