Oh, Carmen - I completely sympathise.

The suggestion made by the girls above are great. Unfortunately the first few weeks are mysterious, educational and extraordinarily tiring. Just try to stay positive, it will get better - even though it doesn't seem like it ever will.

I just said "b**gger the housework." It was hard because I am Mrs Clean Freak, but it really helped. Only do what is absolutely necessary and try to sleep when she does (I say try).

She's only little and completely new to the world. When she was in your belly, she was never cold or hot, never hungry - everything was on demand - and day/night did not mean a thing. She has to adjust to her new world with your help.

It's extremely difficult to help someone who simply refuses to properly articulate their needs. They should come out with a white board and pen - if you can't say it, at least write it!!! (I'm not sure I'd want to give birth to the white board, though.........hmmmmmmmmm......... I digress.)

Just stay positive - you will be rewarded for your persistence and love ten fold, I abolutely guarantee it.