wow thankjs guys. i also told the nurse that DS refuses to go to bed before 9pm,, once 9pm comes he will go to sleep immed- really weird, she was very discgusted that i keep him up so late, i told her if he goes down during the witching hr/colic etc, he just screams, so i dont need any added stress,, but he will or maybe sometimes sleep in my arms durin this time...