Okay, maybe this is a dumb question, but what's wrong with strawberries once they are on solids?! I wouldn't expect it to be a problem at all...

I wouldn't worry too much about the teddy, unless it's very soft or large. The guidelines say 12 months, but I think that's reasonably flexible, and she's only a month off that anyway really. If you don't want them to do it again maybe just mention it next time she's there?

Don't feel bad for worrying - that's what parents do! Of course you want the best for your baby