well dd2 is 7 1/2 months and just under 8kg. she is in a rearward facing seat. my plan (after reading threads about car safety on bb) was to keep her reverse for as long as possible. however, she is struggling, stretching out her arms and legs, not bending to sit so her legs go stiff and she ends up standing in seat, pulling at my hair, clothes, arms, seat belt, crying and screaming when i try to get her into the car seat. at first i thought it was a phase and she would just stop but it has been going on for a couple weeks now. what am i supposed to do? if i turned the seat around i am sure it would solve this problem.