Great Idea!

~ If someone asks "What can I do" Don't be afraid to ask them to do stuff, ie the dishes, a load of washing whatever it is that will help out. Cuddling the new baby doesn't help you very much at all

~ Don't listen to those thoughts laced with guilt "I am not doing a good job" "I could do better" "How come such and such is coping and I'm not" "It must be my fault they are crying". Guilt is a mothers enemy and when I look back on how I felt for the first few months (or 6 LOL) guilt is something I wish I never felt, it clouds EVERYTHING.

~ Before you go to bed at night put a load in the washing machine that way all you have to do is turn it on in the morning.

*hugs*
Cailin