OMG.... You have described my DS to a tee! He is exactly the same as Lily! I dont know what to do with him either, if he keeps going for a while i put him in time out, till he calms down, i distract him, offer food, drink, toy, thomas the tank (his fav atm) offer to put on movie..... in the end i have to give in or i will totally loose it. I am trying to get him out of sucking thumb... No good. Trying to get him out of bottles.... No good either. What am i going to do in a few weeks time when i have another one? OMG i need my head read! LOL.
So sorry sweets, if you have tried everything i suggested i dont know what your going to do but im keeping my eye on this thread it will be interesting!

Jen