Yes I think you have my DD2!! I have to bribe her to go to bed (and stay there!)

She actually told me she likes me changing her nappies After that we took away the potty and the toilet seat and stopped making any reference to the potty/TT at all. Totally ignored it. So yesterday she asked to wee on the potty, she did and today she did 2 wees. Maybe try the reverse psychology approach - if she thinks you don't care about it she might do it?