Hugs I know how you are feeling! I had dd2 out on Tuesday and was taking her for a haircut, she had a tantrum as I made her hold my hand when we went across the pedistrian crossing. She dropped to the floor and was screaming. Nothing I could do but wait it out. People had to walk around her and she wouldn't calm down to get her hair cut.

Dont worry about what others think just let her get it out then get down to her level and ask her to talk about it - eg what's wrong, what do you want. I ask for a cuddle too.

In dd's case it has been made worse by teething she is getting three of her two year old molars at once and she is having trouble sleeping and eating.

Hope you can work out the reason she is behaving that way.