Leigh, sorry to hear your having a hard time. Rebecca is also stubborn however she doesnt carry on for ages. Whats her vocab like? Fotunately for me bec can verbalise what she wants pretty quick smart so we can deal with it pretty quickly. Im also one for getting down on her level and seeing whats going on..... or I just leave her! Not that you can do that in the middle of the street. Hopefully she grows out of this stage pretty quick for you. its hard when you have 3 little ones. Sorry Im not too much help but big hugs and good luck.