Sorka, I have found that having Paige just worked so well for our family. From the newborn stage right through to now, she has just fitted in. All three play really well together and even though they do fight, they are really good companions for one another. Especially with Lindsay now at school, the girls play different games to when he is around - more girly things, but when Lindsay is home quite often they will all be in the sandpit together. There are 20mths between the three of them and even though there will be a bigger gap between Paige and this baby, I still feel that our timing for them was right for us.

In regards to the older two being company while you are feeding a baby etc, that does work really well too, but sometimes it can be disastorous LOL - double the trouble! but overall it is great.