I was wondering if your an only child - if you feel this has affected you in any way? ( negative/positive ).. Do you hold it against your parents that they didnt have any more kids ??
And to those who only have 1 child and dont plan on having more - how do you feel about it ?
Reason im asking is that DH wants to have more kids , and as soon as possible.
I really only want 1 child , I can think of HEAPS of reasons why only one is enough - but only 1 reason to have another - so Aneta can have a brother or sister , so she wont be alone...
I want to do everything in my power to make her happy - but just the thought of having more children makes me upset , i LOVE being a mum and i LOVE Aneta more than life itself... and thats the way I want it to stay - Aneta, DH and I - Just the 3 of us

Am i selfish to be thinking like this ?