Becky, it will be hard at first. But once the baby is a bit bigger it should get easier, as the two children will entertain each other and give you some time to get other things done. I had two under two with little help in the beginning and I survived, but I will be honest with you, the first 6 - 12 months were very tough.

The first thing I suggest is that you get a sling for the baby. Being able to do other things while settling the baby is a huge help, and it is also easier than having two in the pram when you go out (if the baby will even be happy in the pram). My sling was my life saver in the first months.

Secondly, try to do as little as possible at first. If you can freeze some meals up before the baby comes, that will mean you will have nights where dinner just needs to be heated. If anyone offers to help, say yes. Ask them if they would mind bringing a meal around for you, or doing a load of washing. People won't offer if they don't really want to help. If I had my time again, I'd ask for help after the baby is born instead of presents. See if your DH can iron his own shirts or buy wash and wear ones. Think about doing online shopping so you don't have to try and get to the supermarket so often with two kids. Don't worry too much about housework, do only what needs to be done, and get a cleaner if you can afford it. Make things as easy on yourself as you can because looking after two kids and getting some rest are going to take all your time.

For a while I had trouble getting out of the house as the boys would tag-team their sleeps, and get very cranky if they missed a sleep. So BB was my life-saver at that time. Some days it was the only human contact I had until DH got home. If you can, find some mums in the area who will come to you for coffee etc so you don't have to go out to meet people, and if you are lucky they might give you a hand while they are there.

All the best with it hun. I know you will manage