Hi Everyone,

Thanks for your emails. I guess I will have to let things slide and just keep up with essentials. Freezing food is a good idea but DH hates re-heated/left over food as for some strange reason he thinks its not fresh food-go figure?!? He will just have to lump it though or cook himself.

I plan on joining plenty of play groups etc when we move with DD as she's very busy now with friends/library and it tires her out otherwise she doesn't have a day sleep which I really want her to keep having!!

Am thinking maybe occassional care for her one day a week also now shes turned 2 and possibly a cleaner/ironer once a week as not sure I'd need full time help with an au pair.

Thanks again for your replies its reassuring to know others have done it and coped.