I have found that most of the time they nap for at least an hour at the same time of the day - thats housework time.
Ah yes...DS dropped his day sleeps at 19 months - so I am kind of thinking that as long as bub is out of commission that can be our one on one time. I do struggle to get housework done now because DS is up all day long but I'm slowly figuring out how to do it and I guess it will all just get blown out the window again!

He does go to bed at 6.30pm however, by which time DH will be home to wrangle DD so I might just have to try and devote 30 mins each evening to general tidy up. DH is willing to pay for a cleaner but I don't know how comfortable I feel having a stranger in the house while I'm breastfeeding and just generally being a wreck.

Thank you so much...I just needed to have some ideas! If anyone has any more tips, keep 'em coming!