I'd love to know too - Izzy is waking 3 hourly still and at least 1-2 of those feeds are real feeds so Im reluctant to stop them in case she is hungry. Makes it hard to have a good nights sleep doesn't it. I just got back from a day stay at sleep school and they suggest reassuring comforting - you dont pick them up but sit there and pat or say sshhhhh until they fall asleep. It took one couple 1 1/2 hours the first time and can take up to 3 weeks to work, needless to say we haven't started implementing this just yet. Sorry not much help here - hope you find something that works for you.