Hi Deb, not sure if I will be of much help because this is something I REALLY struggle with.

I actually wake Hunter to feed him quite often & try to coerce him into some sort of routine with feeding & sleeping. All I ever hear from anyone is "never wake a sleeping baby" so it plays on me heavily.

Last night, while discussing this very issue, my dad said something really profound. His words were "in the end it matters little..... he won't know the difference in three days time. If something happens for three days running that doesn't seem to work then just change it"

Easier said than done, I know, but you can't deny the logic. Maybe I just need to relax & if he misses a feed here & there then so be it. What is the worst that can happen if he is clean, safe, full & REALLY good to cuddle