Oh Gigi, I got a nappy bag that's a backpack and pretty plain (doesn't even look like a nappy bag) and I love that. It means I can have her in the HAB and the backpack on and I'm totally hands free! It's also pretty small, you don't really need to take that much out with you. Most of the stuff that's in mine (and I was pretty conservative) I haven't used yet! Enough room for a few nappies, change mat (included in the bag), wipes, a spare change of clothes, a spare washer (just in case) and cloth nappy for spews. That's about all I've used so far, even though I haven't taken anything else out! Oh, and I kept spare nursing pads in at the start when I leaked constantly.