I had 2 under 2 and the eldest (DD) adapted quite well.

However she quickly learn't how easy it was for her to get my attention - usually when I was feeding or changing DS' nappy. .

It is a bit of a juggling act, but you will get there.

I always tell DD to 'go give bubby cuddles' etc and it makes her feel a part of the family unit. Although she didn't have a huge level of understanding at her age as your DS would.

Just make sure you still have special time with your eldest, and include him in on little things he can help with - either passing the newbie a toy, or giving a gentle cuddle etc. Just like you adapted to having one baby in the house, you'll adapt to having two around as well!

Good luck!