With a 3yo and a 2 week old, so far it's been interesting, but not too hard. I think it's been more of an emotionally hard time for me than anything coz I worry about dd getting enough attention when I'm feeding etc. I guess as ds gets older it may get a bit harder because he'll be more demanding on my time, at the moment he sleeps alot.

The age gap has been fantastic though, dd has been a great help, and loves being mummy's big helper and getting nappies, wipes etc when I need them. Her favourite job is picking Josiah's clothes for the day.

Good luck convincing DH - hope he comes around for you soon!

Bel