Definite cons

- stretching your time and attention between two so that you frequently are drowning in guilt that one of your babies is going without whatever
- more sleeplessness for you and DH
- longer impact on your life when you really can't do a lot of the things you used to do (eg going out for dinner with an 18 month is NOT fun!)
- lots more money
- lots more mess

Pros
- Watching your two beautiful daughters playing and laughing with each other.
- Sitting on a chair with both your babies wrapping their little arms around you and snuggling in
- Realising that despite all your fears that you just wouldn't be "enough" for another child, your heart swells with an almost painful amount of love for your family.