Wow theyre some pretty big words but do you think he could really do it?
I know my DH has said in the past that Jesse wont settle with him no more and then the next week he does settle with DH but not me. I make a point to say to DH see he does settle with you (which makes him feel better), he just goes through different phases and times that i dont think it matters who holds him, hes just over tired and cant settle. But it can be frustrating and upsetting i know when all you want to do is be able to settle your bubs and you cant. When i start getting frustrated i just hand Jesse to DH and maybe you should just say to your BF (in a nice way of course), when you feel like that come and get me and ill take over and visa versa. But trust me it does get better.. i bet he finds next week that he'll have no problems