Thanks ladies, that has helped heaps and made me feel better. I was thinking that I was putting him to bed "too much" and not giving him enough up time. But sounds like I was doing the right thing.

Willow, your situation sounds the same as mine. In the morning he can only really last the 1.5 hours and in the arvo he tends to stay up longer and only have 45min cat naps. I tend to take him out more at that time of the day as he copes better that way. He doesn't sleep through the night either and I am up 2 times booby feeding him. I am really looking forward to sleeping through but I feel that it could be a lot worse so I don't complain too much.

You have all been a big help
Nita