wow, lots of us! its good to know im not alone and havent caused this, as i constantly get told its my fault for bf or being a sahm, or not attending a mg, or not letting anyone touch dd as a newborn or whatever reason each person comes up with thats either not true or utterly ridiculous.
dd has been like this since 11 weeks and has only the last few weeks been happy to go to dh for cuddles, but she will still cry for me after 2 mins. she has never gone to il's and screams like crazy if i hand her over, while koala hugging me.
its frustrating when you want them to have cuddles with someone, but at the same time its nice to be so wanted and needed.

guess we just have to hope it will ease in time