No you are not being a worry wart, you are being a good mother!!! I would be fuming. It drives me absolutely insane when people go straight for their hands or faces. I actually joked when DS was born that I was going to get a t-shirt made for him saying "Do not touch or kiss me". It's very rude for people to do this and shows no respect for you or your precious little V. Some people just don't realise how precious and fragile babies are, the first 12 months are critical. Big big hugs, I understand completely and once again you are not being a worry wart..... you are being a wonderful protective & caring Mummy.