Thanks Saram -- I am going to have a look at that. I have actually read a lot of it online already. The funny thing is that he doesn't (usually) feed to sleep during the day -- only night. Although today I just asked him how he would like to go to sleep for his nap and he pointed to our BF chair so I did because it's VERY VERY hot today so who can be bothered arguing?!

Last night, I fed him to sleep with a sippy bottle of cow's milk in his hand! Very cute he held on to it for ages even when falling asleep on the boob! But in the end, he slept from 730-430 with only a little wake and my husband was sleeping w him and settled him with a pat adn some water!

Let's hope for more of those!

Yes I think I will buy a bed -- twin or double. I took the sides off his cot yesterday and it just looks so unsafe -- the rail sits at the same height as the mattress and the whole things still seems high ...