Sounds like she doesn't understand the real dangers of turning a baby to early, there are some good videos on you tube that show what happens to a bub turned to early maybe you could send her links to those.
If her seat has a turn limit of only 8kg then she needs to buy/hire a seat that rear faces until 12kg as it is illegal to turn bub before 6 mths and very dangerous.


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