What am i missing?

[onthefly]

Oh bugger, that's just what you need. Well if they're sleeping I hope you get some rest too
I understand the brick walls - that's what happens when you're at the end of your rope. And I too have made myself sick by not taking time out when I needed to - It seems impossible at the time, I know, but there is always a way.

[helle]

do you think it could just be detachment anxiety? or whatever it's called... she wants you and ONLY you!
J is starting to do that now. He'll scream merry hell if I walk out of a room, even if DH is holding him (and when I walk back in he cracks a smile - DH is going to get a complex soon) if he's just been fed changed and burped. He's also chucking the ****s if he drops a toy he's been playing with... fun!

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

Thanks so much everyone.. DD1 is officially sick, runny nose, sooky, wanting mummy, we have watched 4 DVD's today and she finally fell asleep on me, her temp was 38 earlier to have tried some panadol and some icy pole, can tell she's not well she isn't eating much either.

BUT on a good note i have done absolutely NOTHING today, done the dishes and 2 loads of washing and thats it BUT the best part... ZARA HAS HAD 2 DECENT SLEEPS... she is asleep now and has been for close to 2hrs i'm not sure if it was because she ate a decent amount of rice cereal this morning, becuase i have been giving her infacol every 2nd feed.. i have no idea but am hoping it continues *touch wood*
She was still a bit grumpy but tonight will be the test, she is normally feral around our dinner time so am thinking i might give her a feed when she wakes then see if she wants a tiny bit of rice cereal again for dinner (need to do some more veg food shopping for baby friendly BLS)

Thanks so so much for everything, i doubt she will be back to 100% straught away but i can hope.