I always shower after the girls go to bed at night. They can have a bath during the day if they need one but I like to relax and wash my hair in peace and I really find water relaxing, so to me having the kids in the bathroom or shower would take my relaxation time away.
yes i must say it was AWESOME when DH was home and even thought we were in a drought and the governement were telling us to have 4minute timed showers, when i had it to myself i was always in for at least 10minutes heehee