What is "normal" night waking?

[*beannaithe*]

Ummmm what have we tried? We always have minimal engagement during the night and in the dark. DH settling her rather than me, shushing, patting, cuddling, rocking, singing, won't take a dummy, feeding more during the day, dream feed, solids, more layers, less layers, wrapping, not wrapping, letting her have a bit if a grizzle ( escalates quickly), boob, water, nappy change, someone else taking her for the night, night light, no night light . . . not sure if I've missed anything