now that dd is a bit older (14 months) i make it a habit never to immediately get her out of the cot when she first wakes... she's usually in there for about half an hour before i get her up... she has toys in there she can play with, but mostly she just shouts or babbles... i usually lay in bed just that extra bit longer and take my time waking up, or if we have somewhere to be that day i run and jump in the shower and get dressed...
she usually wakes anywhere between 6am and 7am... sometimes horrificly earlier, sometimes pleasantly later...
i don't get up before 7am though.... if she wakes early she either needs to amuse herself until its a reasonable hour, or i go lay down in her room with a doona and tell her to go back to sleep, and miraculously sometimes i can get an extra half hour out of her if i lay there with her.
i highly recommend letting your baby learn to amuse themselves in their cot, even for 10 minutes.... its good for them to learn that the cot isn't a scary place they need rescued from, but there own little comfy spot to play or nap. just my opinion anyway.
im not really keen on having a toddler up at the crack of dawn so am wanting to eventually teach her that if she wakes and its still dark she's allowed to play quietly in her room by reading a book, same thing at night, if she's not ready for bed she'll be allowed to read, but not come out of her room... thats how we were all brought up and i think its brilliant... if it will work!! all sounds good in theory.
7am is what i deem reasonable to get up, anything vastly before and it just feels like the middle of the night!! in winter anyway.




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I am not a morning person well I can be if for a reason
some days I have had to wake Jack as he might sleep in till 10am or longer most days he wakes at 9am he goes down at 9pm though so not sure if thats the difference but even when he started sleeping thru 10 weeks he wouldn't wake till after 8am


Biggest problem with it (apart from being up too early) is he is ready for a nap when I take DD to school.....at least he is sleeping through th e night again

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