My boys are taken in for a story at 8.30 & lights out after the book. Personally I would like to see them going in for the book at 8 & lights out at 8.30. But DH has kindly taken over the role of bed time for the boys so I can't push him to do it how I want it done. I take Isla to settle for the night around 7.30/8ish. But she could be asleep anywere from 7.30/8ish to 10pm, depends on the night. One of the reasons DH does the bed time thing with the boys. Some nights I am lucky & Isla goes down well & then I get a little break while DH deals with the boys.