I asked her last day care, and they said that she showed none of the behavioural troubles there, and they were shocked when I asked them. She was really quiet there. So I guess that means that its not her, its my parenting really....
No.It.Is.Not.
It is the way SHE is. Her personality and mannerisms. It's not your parenting. Some people are more demanding than others. Just because she's your kid doesn't mean she is going to be good, or dare I say it, that you will always like what she does. I clash with DD sometimes too. It isn't a reflection on my parenting. Same goes for you. Kids challenge us the most because they know we love them unconditionally. They know no matter how *****iful your day has been with them, you will still say 'I love you so much' at the end of the day.