GET THEM ADDICTED TO DVDs! LOL!
Same here dd1 never used to like tv now she loves the Disney playhouse channel, I also gave her dolls to look after which made a difference and asked her to help if I needed something. I try and find time to spend just with her and dh will take her out on her own. These days though the girls love to play with each other. Just about ready to go through it all again!