I think Jordan was having 4 feeds a day up until he was about 7-8 months.
he just refused the bottles of EBM (as I had returned to work by then).
At about 10 months he dropped the afternoon feed and has been on 2 since.

He just refused to drink or would fuss around. If you think bubs is ready to drop the feed done offer it and see how she goes. If she asks for it then give it to her but if she doesnt ask she may be ready to drop one.