Thanks Janie - you're lovely Fortunately DH is usually home most nights by the time Natty needs to go to bed, so I have help then. It's just bathtime that's particularly tricky!
Thank you Kristy - I have heard that 12 weeks is a good time to start establishing stronger routines. I'm not sure how I'll manage with a toddler in tow, but I might just chill out for another month or so and tackle it then.