My child already knows that he can't grap stuff off the shelf and eat it, if I give him something he will eat it, he doesn't just help himself, he knows full well that I am the boss and what I say goes.

I totally support Sarah's decision because that was her decision and she is Zander's mother. And I admire her for not being as confronting as me and ignoring the checkout lady's comment, I would've had to have bit back - Nice patience sarah!!

I don't like it when people get all haughty taughty about their decisions and make ridiculous generalisations, I am old enough to make that distinction.