Where is my libido?

[Taurean]

Lol i'd like to know what my excuse is then since numbers 1-3 don't apply to me!!

Ha ha ha!

[mrswright]

I know people who have gone off the pill generally say their libido increases after this - one my friends said she'd turned into a p*rn star in her own bedroom I knew one new mum who was told by her doctor to have sex 4 times in 4 days, whether she felt like it or not, and she said that fixed it for her. Much like Doritos, I find that the more I have the more I want Otherwise, sleep and exercise but I'm not sure how likely those are for most mums

[PollyA]

Maybe its on holiday in libido land with mine?

I know people who have gone off the pill generally say their libido increases after this - one my friends said she'd turned into a p*rn star in her own bedroom I knew one new mum who was told by her doctor to have sex 4 times in 4 days, whether she felt like it or not, and she said that fixed it for her. Much like Doritos, I find that the more I have the more I want Otherwise, sleep and exercise but I'm not sure how likely those are for most mums

I think this is defnitely true. When I overcome the tiredness, blah feeling etc I think why don't I do this more often. Maybe try that! Date nights help too!

[Calluna]

When you find where there all hiding can you send mine home too please?

The thought of DTD makes me feel literally sick lately. *tmi* Which is why we've only done it 4 times in the last year!

I think breastfeeding would be legit as it messes with your hormones. Same with the mini pill.
And just thinking about it makes me exhausted.

The fake it til you make it theory probably works well if it's any good. I wouldn't know *more tmi* DF is fairly useless (although has his moments) and I dont have the energy to just lie there and take it, let alone do all the work.

[Taurean]

Heather, PMSL! I kind of know what you mean! DH can be good but he's a bit lazy in the rack sometimes and I generally like my man to take charge in the bedroom....which reading that back, is pretty bloody lazy too really! We are doomed, LOL!

MrsWright - love your analogy! I love Doritos...mmmm... can I convert them to sex?

PollyA - we have tried date nights and they did actually work at first so we decided last night to give it another go, tonight being date night... wish me luck!

I may need to take my post to a more appropriate forum...LOL!

[boobaloo]

when you find your libido, ask it if it's seen mine???
which is funny, i have bloody raunchy dreams, but can't be arsed doing it in real life...

[onthefly]

HAve an ask round for mine too, while you're at it.
My main reason is exhaustion. Years of sleep deprivation will do that apparently.

[Chickoin]

i have bloody raunchy dreams, but can't be arsed doing it in real life...

This is my problem too, the dreams are satisfying enough...