thread: Why arent some women ever happy?

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  1. #1
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    Jun 2003
    Ubiquity
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    Yeah being on both sides (infertity and wanting LOTS of kids) I'd say each to their own. I don't think its a matter of not loving what you already have its more a case of wanting to love more and more and more! I have suffered the strains of infertility, it took us 2 yrs to conceive seth and in that time I had 2 miscarriages but I would never ever think that another mother who chose to have more children closer together did so because she wasn't happy with what she had. And I wouldn't take it personally either.

    I also think its how you look at it and the perspecitve you choose to take.

    *hugs*
    Cailin

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2005
    Sydney
    2,121

    mmm maybe it is the perspective. I know we all have a time clock within us that gives us that urge to 'hurry along' with conceiving children, but sometimes i just want to shake (ever so gently) some mothers and let them see what they've got.

    I wake up every day eager to start the days with my children, looking forward to what lies ahead. I suppose in my own little world i expect everyone else to do the same.....