Yeah being on both sides (infertity and wanting LOTS of kids) I'd say each to their own. I don't think its a matter of not loving what you already have its more a case of wanting to love more and more and more! I have suffered the strains of infertility, it took us 2 yrs to conceive seth and in that time I had 2 miscarriages but I would never ever think that another mother who chose to have more children closer together did so because she wasn't happy with what she had. And I wouldn't take it personally either.

I also think its how you look at it and the perspecitve you choose to take.

*hugs*
Cailin