MM:
1. You are a fabulous mummy. I know this from reading how you are with M and how much you care for her and even the fact you are so concerned about this. Dont ever let something like this make you feel like a bad mum
2. I am sure this is normal - she has excellent gross motor skills and wants to try them out. she cant express herself yet so she is frustrated. she is a toddler... all valid reasons for her to be how she is at the moment
3. I am sure this wont last - it isnt her personality or temperament - it is a stage she is going trhough as she learns - and you are doing a great job at teaching her how to be...
4.Dont feel that others judge you, or dont let them judge you, we all worry about diff things with our kids. For example, Noah is not like this at all - he is v verbal and not v physical. if i was out with you and didnt know you i woudl prob be sitting there wishing N had a bit more oomph to him physically like M. so i;d be so caught up in my own dialogue about my own child to be judging you! and we all have our little 'sensitive points' with our kids if we are honest...

You are a terrific mum - you are aware what you need to work on with her and are doing so! be kind to youself.

ps hope all that made sense! xxx
Couldn't have said it better!!! Well done!
I really agree with "don't let others judge you" After all the only way they CAN judge you is if you let them!!!