*hug* Tiff I don't have many answers. Matilda still wakes at night & the last week has been up for over an hour in the middle of the night just grumping and complaining about everything... Its awful & tiring and someday my child will sleep through... Matilda isn't unwell anymore, its all behavioural. But for the first year with reflux & ear infections & tonsilitis it was awful. There were days when all I did for a full 18 hours was try to settle her down. She is extremely active as well & used to have permanent scratches behind her ears where she would flail as a tired sign.

So... nothing for you but *hugs* and the same wish as Nat, that I lived closer. I did find Brauer's Calm homeopathic drops helped for a month.... just thinking out loud now.